Mutterings & musings from the manically morphing mind of an estrogen deficient, menopausal, modern matriarch.
Friday, December 16, 2011
On people past ...
It's that time of the year again. Time to open up the bureau that belonged to my grandfather & grandmother. Time to get out my aging address books. Time to find the aging annual holiday card lists.
Time to write the holiday cards.
Little did I know as I opened up at "A", the first name dropped off the list.
My grandmother, Cecilia "Mimi" Abraham.
Gone.
That was the beginning.
Through "B", onto "C" - all the way through.
What a harsh realization it was. In some cases, both the husband & wife were gone.
I could not cross through the names. That seemed too harsh. I just left them all there, a timeline for the last 30 years of my life. People who live on in memories.
I shared this with a friend of mine. She said she did not cross out the names. Instead, she would simply write in the date they passed.
Maybe next year ...
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