A friend of mine was telling me about her niece's pending baby shower.
For some strange reason, I was totally taken aback by the realization that I had never had one.
Despite the fact that I delivered 3 good sized, healthy babies all by myself, Kaelin at home with a mid-wife, not one shower.
Not even the hint of one!
As my friend continued to tell me of the numerous showers she had attended over the course of her life, I started mourning the 3 showers that never were.
Yet another rite of passage that sailed right past me.
The games, the silliness.
I found myself lamenting until I realized.
I wouldn't have wanted one even if the opportunity had presented itself.
What a strange amble my mind went on today!